'Reflections of My Life' is not in any part about the judgement of someone else's character (in relation to me), but rather a description of (pathological) behaviour, homicidal tendencies and / or personality disorder traits as perceived and experienced by me in spending time in various personal relationships.
The discussions of Love and Loss are my own interpretations and experiences throughout my life - either through people close to me I lost along the way - grieving their unconditional love or significant other(s) that I have lost through their conditional expectations, intolerable abusive behaviour and / or unfortunate emotional disconnect.Personality Disorder Traits / Psychopathy Traits: Disclaimer and Reference
References to (any) perceived personality disorder traits / psychopathy traits mentioned anywhere on the "Reflections of My Life' website are not specifically directed to disrespect or being vindictive against anyone that was in close relation to me. It is rather a reference to certain actions / reactions that were identified / experienced (by me) as unacceptable pathological behavioural manifestations through physical, psychological and / or verbal abuse intended to harm me, either intentionally or unintentionally against my character, integrity and personal values.
Over the years I have studied / facilitated / read the motivational theories of Herzberg, Maslow, McClelland, Skinner and Vroom and the psychoanalytical approaches of Frankl, Freud, Hare, Jung, Kernberg, Klein, Kohut and Miller. I'm particularly interested in Otto Kernberg's psychoanalytical perspectives (with specific reference to borderline personality organisation, narcissistic pathology and object relations theory). During 2020 I was introduced to the 'Compassionate Inquiry' work of Dr. Gabor Maté - renown international addiction and trauma expert - for his psychotherapeutic approach towards a pragmatic understanding of addiction and trauma.
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